In a time when most people thrive off of attention— whether it’s through social media or personal interactions— the idea of isolation can occasionally be seen as a punishment. However, as we begin a new year, we invite you to reimagine the idea of spending time alone.
Beloved actress Tia Mowry recently inspired this conversation after she took to Instagram to express her gratitude for solitude. Over the holidays, the mom of two posted a message on social media letting her followers know that she’s gained inner peace thanks to much-needed alone time.
“I have a confession to make: I’ve never been alone. Until now,” she shared in a caption. “For the longest time, I’ve found myself in the company of others, as my work and family commitments kept me constantly surrounded by people, and not to mention, I have a twin.”
The stylish entrepreneur and influencer— who has a twin Tamara Mowry Housley and two younger brothers Tahj and Tavior— went on to share that she’s deliberately shifting her perspective of solitude to embrace every solo moment.
“I realized that being alone wasn’t a punishment but rather an opportunity to recharge. Through conscious effort, I transformed these moments into a crucial aspect of maintaining my well-being,” she explains. “This shift allowed me to recognize the value of solitude in refreshing my mind and spirit.”
We agree with Mowry! In fact, we recently wrote about the importance of stealing a moment for yourself.
Solitude certainly provides a unique opportunity for self-discovery and introspection. In the quiet moments away from outside distractions, we are able to dive deep into our inner thoughts and feelings. This journey of self-awareness is why so many professional women have turned to solo dating as of recent.
Looking for ways to make the most out of your alone time? Keep scrolling to read our tips.
Enjoy “Me Time”
Treat yourself to quality “me time” during moments of solitude. While solo dating yourself, engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation like reading a book or spending time pampering yourself. Self-care should always come to mind when you have some much-needed alone time.
Detox From Digital Devices
In 2024, we challenge you to take a deliberate break from digital devices. For an hour, turn off notifications, step away from social media, and embrace the quiet moments. A digital detox during moments of solitude can significantly reduce stress and help in recharging your mental batteries.
Reset Outdoors
What better way to unwind than spending time in nature. During your alone time, take a walk and allow yourself to enjoy the moment. Being outdoors is perfect for resetting your mind, body, and soul.
Be Mindful
Cultivate the habit of mindful meditation during your moments of solitude. Focus on your breath, let go of racing thoughts, and center yourself in the present. Meditation has been proven to reduce stress, improve concentration, and enhance overall well-being.
Unlock Your Creative Side
The absence of external distractions is perfect for unlocking your creativity. Alone time offers the opportunity to let you imagination roam freely and allows you to be creative without judgment. There’s no better time than now to find a new hobby!
Set Your Goals For The New Year
Solitude is an excellent time to make that vision board! Remember, it’s never too late to visualize all your goals and dreams.
New year, new vibes! In 2024, consider prioritizing moments of solitude. Much like Mowry, we’re sure you’ll be delightfully surprised how much you love getting to know yourself and enhancing your well-being.
